Relationship Coaching

Every single person on this planet has a specific purpose (a final destination) that only he/she can fulfil. In order for that to become a reality, there must be a balance between the different areas that govern this destination. Relationships are one of those areas. This does not only involve relationships with other people but also the relationship you have with yourself. Below is an example of a hypothetical coaching session on possible relationship mindsets:

	Current Reality	Desired Reality
The     Destination	·  Bored in relationship ·  Recurring conflicts ·  Vulnerable to moods of partner ·  Resentment towards partner ·  No intimacy with partner	·  Understanding each other ·  Having fun together ·  Openness/ Transparency ·  Respect, Trust ·  Intimacy
The Map	·  What can you give me? ·  You don’t satisfy my needs ·  The feelings are gone ·  I can’t trust you?	·  What if you give what you demand? ·  And if love isn’t a feeling? ·  Trust causes trustworthiness
Momentum	·  When one is irritated, we fight. ·  The past comes up.	·  What can you let go of? ·  How much commitment and responsibility do you show? ·  Consider the effect of forgiveness.